I doubt that's going to happen but you never know.
Tommydxxx
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Hi @The Real TommyDXXX , lovely to see you on this site and creating this thread!
Can I just say it's really nice to see a legendary sexy pornstar engaging with us fans, you're like a celebrity in our world!
You made a difference to alot of us with your videos and gave many of us our gay awakenings, so thank you for that
I really wish more pornstars came on this site like yourself and giving us insights into the gay porn world, really fascinating (not to mention hot!) to learn some background stuff!
It's also great to know you made a life long friend from the industry with another legendary (and sexy!) pornstar @only1nashlawler
Thank you both for letting us enjoy your sexy works!
Can I just say it's really nice to see a legendary sexy pornstar engaging with us fans, you're like a celebrity in our world!
You made a difference to alot of us with your videos and gave many of us our gay awakenings, so thank you for that
I really wish more pornstars came on this site like yourself and giving us insights into the gay porn world, really fascinating (not to mention hot!) to learn some background stuff!
It's also great to know you made a life long friend from the industry with another legendary (and sexy!) pornstar @only1nashlawler
Thank you both for letting us enjoy your sexy works!
It's been fun. I have enjoyed it.Hi @The Real TommyDXXX , lovely to see you on this site and creating this thread!
Can I just say it's really nice to see a legendary sexy pornstar engaging with us fans, you're like a celebrity in our world!
You made a difference to alot of us with your videos and gave many of us our gay awakenings, so thank you for that
I really wish more pornstars came on this site like yourself and giving us insights into the gay porn world, really fascinating (not to mention hot!) to learn some background stuff!
It's also great to know you made a life long friend from the industry with another legendary (and sexy!) pornstar @only1nashlawler
Thank you both for letting us enjoy your sexy works!
I’m sure a lot of people would like to see the 2025 version of TommyD doing what made him so many fans over the years.
Maybe, maybe not but I don't do that work anymore. I put my time in. 8 years was plenty for me.
Hey @The Real TommyDXXX !
You were one of my favourites to watch on the internet back before I started meeting anyone - I grew up in a very conservative place and that's the only "connection" I had with exploring my sexuality.
Incredibly heartened to stumble upon and read the threads here. You're so awesome and I thought you were incredibly handsome. You gave the closeted virgin gay boy the sort of rush and tingle at the back of his head when he saw your work, that I don't think content creators these days could match up to.
That part where you explained how studios gradually showed what performers did (from softcore to full on anal) made totally sense and I felt that while there was a commercial side, it sort of matched the pace at which I was coming out too.
Apologies that I never contributed to you financially as a 16 year old with no independent digital payment or income (kids with raging hormones are incredible at piracy) - but just wanted to let you know that I'm pretty sure there were people out there like me who appreciated the sex you brought out to the world in the 2000s and then getting to know and reflect on the real you now. It's full circle.
Happy that your journey in, through and out of the industry was a positive one and reading your reflections here helps shed some perspectives on gay culture that's relevant even today. I admire how at ease and confident you are amidst negative comments and being okay with not having an answer to your sexuality. I contemplated doing porn the same reasons you did regarding exploring but didn't have the balls to do it, although I came round to growing into the person I am today through other different but equally enriching experiences.
Thanks for being you! You made a difference!
You were one of my favourites to watch on the internet back before I started meeting anyone - I grew up in a very conservative place and that's the only "connection" I had with exploring my sexuality.
Incredibly heartened to stumble upon and read the threads here. You're so awesome and I thought you were incredibly handsome. You gave the closeted virgin gay boy the sort of rush and tingle at the back of his head when he saw your work, that I don't think content creators these days could match up to.
That part where you explained how studios gradually showed what performers did (from softcore to full on anal) made totally sense and I felt that while there was a commercial side, it sort of matched the pace at which I was coming out too.
Apologies that I never contributed to you financially as a 16 year old with no independent digital payment or income (kids with raging hormones are incredible at piracy) - but just wanted to let you know that I'm pretty sure there were people out there like me who appreciated the sex you brought out to the world in the 2000s and then getting to know and reflect on the real you now. It's full circle.
Happy that your journey in, through and out of the industry was a positive one and reading your reflections here helps shed some perspectives on gay culture that's relevant even today. I admire how at ease and confident you are amidst negative comments and being okay with not having an answer to your sexuality. I contemplated doing porn the same reasons you did regarding exploring but didn't have the balls to do it, although I came round to growing into the person I am today through other different but equally enriching experiences.
Thanks for being you! You made a difference!
I appreciate the kind words and I'm happy I was able to have a positive influence on your life and so many others. I had no idea at the time that was happening. I was just having fun and making money doing it.
I another thread a former seancody porn star has an account (claiming to be straight now but he's previously said he enjoys gay sex so) and says the guys were hopped up on lots of viagra to perform and some had to watch porn off on the wide between takes.
Is that your experience as well during your career? Common or uncommon occurrence?
It started to become common towards the back half of my career. It was less common the first few years because you either needed a prescription or you had to buy them illegally.
I couldn't believe guys would take a needle in their dick to get hard. Definitely makes sense why some of the straight guys would bottom.
I don't believe that was around when I was shooting. It was usually just pills like viagra.
Tommy ! Good to hear from you. And what a surprise after all these years. How are you doing ? How is life?
Well. According to your past messages, you seem happy and married (congratulations, by the way).
Thanks for taking the time to visit your former and faithful fans, and respond to all our questions.
You are one of the top gay porn actors who made me realized my bisexuality something that 15 years ago, definitily one of my favorite. I appreciated you because of the way you gave yourself in all the video you made, of course your fantastic body (chest especially)… but more than that, you seemed nice, respectful. There was something beyond sex in the videos, but virile and sexy.
So… Thanks !
My favorite videos were with Marcus Mojo and AJ Irons. Do you have nice memories of the shooting with them, and the guys themselves?
Marcus was a total sweetheart. One of the nicest guys I ever shot with. He was local so I shot with him a lot and he was often on set even if we weren't doing a scene together that week.
Name rings a bell but don't remember him specifically.Nice. Thanks for your response
And with AJ Irons? You remember?
How much of your scenes were acting vs. actual pleasure? Did you ever have to fake it?
Most were enjoyable but there was always an element of performance involved in every scene. Just the nature of the industry.
